No doubt, Ashleigh. Definitely a fan of this! I'm also a big fan of just not going to the party in the first place. There's nothing worst than being somehwere you don't want to be because you felt obligated to go there. My first question is WHY the feeling of obligation. Get to the crux of that question, and you'll solve of a lot of "problem" situations that you just shouldn't have put yourself in at all.